Sensual. Powerful. Real.Welcome to the world of Tantric BDSM. I'm Mistress Jocelyn, a Dutch Tantric Dominatrix based between Victoria, BC and Amsterdam, the Netherlands.My expertise blends Tantra and BDSM: a match made in heaven if you are looking for something deeper in your (sex) life. This is erotic work with depth, play, and purpose.Glad you found me.


You’re interested in the surrender of BDSM, but you’re not into the violence of classical domination. Let’s make you come alive with Sensual Tantric Domination. A powerful feminine force, an invitation to fully let go.I’m Mistress Jocelyn, a bisexual Tantric Dominatrix based between Victoria, BC and Amsterdam. I naturally carry strong dominance that I will use on you without aggression, violence or humiliation. Although I like to get sadistic sometimes. My dominance is feminine, commanding, sensual, and rooted in the art of tantra. I don’t demand your submission, I invite your deepest desire to surrender, stretch your boundaries, and see the parts of you that ache to be seen.⛓️ TANTRA
Through the ancient practice of Tantra, we understand that there are two polarities to create attraction: the masculine and the feminine. Everyone has both, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. In my lead you can let go, recharge, and explore your submissive and feminine side. Tantra also acknowledges a deeper purpose to sexuality, where taboo and the dark is invited to be alchemized.Contrary to popular belief, those who seek to explore submission are often strong leaders in every day life, looking to let go and recharge.I welcome both beginners and experienced in Tantra. If you've been curious about Tantra or BDSM. This is the best way to learn and experience what the hype is all about.







I play for my pleasure, not for income. I have limited availability and I only book quality time sessions. Longer sessions will take priority.You please me by obeying, worshipping, and letting me shape the scene. I reward when you behave. I'm a tease, and I enjoy every moment of your slutty devotion. Turn me on with your energy, attitude, and willingness to follow my lead.Before a session, we take time to connect: sharing your desires, boundaries, and what feels important to be seen in. This creates safety, so you can fully surrender into the experience.You’ll be guided through an application where you can select from the types of play I enjoy. If you ask for anything outside my interests, you won’t be invited.This is for you if…
✔️ You crave sincere connection, not a transactional session
✔️ You're turned on by the power of a woman who knows how to lead with presence, not aggression
✔️ You want to feel more confident, sensitive and sexual in your body
✔️ You are not looking for full service.I will only respond to requests I'm interested in– so please make a good impression 😘Looking forward to playing with you,
XO Mistress Jocelyn

Here's how I like to play and what turns me on:
– Strap-on (my favorite)
– Feminisation and cross dressing
– Sensory deprivation, restraint
– Impact play (flogging, spanking,
– Body worship
– Mindfucking, mental domination
– CBT
– Service & rituals
– Face-sitting / smothering (clothed)
– Golden shower
– Sounding
– Breath play
– Foot fetish
– Fisting
– RoleplayWhatever I end up doing with you: Tantric surrender will help you feel more sexual and horny in your body and live out what's taboo, giving you grounded confidence.

| SESSION | SENSUAL TANTRIC DOMINATION IN VICTORIA, BC | FEE |
|---|---|---|
| 🔥 SENSUAL DOMINATION | For those who crave depth, time, and complete unraveling, just like me. Over a glass of wine or tea, you open yourself to me. Tell me everything: your cravings, your fears, your edges. I want your truth, even if you have never shared it with anyone before. Because once your mind is laid bare, your body naturally follows. Let me take full control awakening, teasing, breaking you open with connection, presence and pleasure. The perfect indulgence for desire for more than just play, you want to be remembered. | 3 hours, C$900 |
| 🖤 ONGOING D/S | *For repeat clients. We've gone deep in our first rendez-vous, and now you're hooked. What can I say? I love it when I get to know what makes you tick. Let me bring you back into deep surrender, awakening your body again, testing more of your edges, inviting you further outside your comfort zone and into bliss. Until I've trained you to become my best tantric sub. | 2 hours, C$600 or 3 hours $900 |
| 🔥 COUPLES SESSION | Want to share Tantra and Domination with your partner? Whether you’re curious beginners or experienced, we'll explore polarity, power dynamics, surrender, and bringing new fire into your sex life and attraction to each other. We can go into many different flavours of this erotic experience: I guide you to Dominate and switch, or I Dominate you both. Your relationship remains at the center of everything, and you'll bring home fantastic tools. I'll guide an open conversation about desires and boundaries, to then dive into an experience you won't forget. | 3 hours, C$1200 |
| TO BOOK | 20% upfront payment is required. Your 20% upfront payment is non-refundable if you cancel in the last 48 hours before our date. |
Born and raised in Europe, I bring a Dutch directness and progressive sexuality to all my work. I don’t do fluff, and I don’t do fake.Next to doing my sessions as a Dominatrix for pleasure, I own a business, like to travel lots and feel a purpose for better intimacy in the world.I generally attract people who are smart, self-aware, and craving more in life- who want to feel, surrender, and experience something real.
My Tantric Domination sessions take place in my private, cozy and professional studio in Downtown Victoria– equipped with everything I need to take good care of you.

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